In the name of God the Merciful
Praise be to Allah who has permitted slaves to marry two, three, or four, prayer and peace is better than a dish of this legislation and the best of justice in it, either:
God is not prescribed anything except the goodness and benefit of creating God Almighty wise expert slaves merciful as well as the Prophet peace be upon him what speaks of passion that is only a Revelation revealed, quoted above right and done well, it does not work in accordance with what only order it from God do not read anything he sees one of his friends except by order of God, and that polygamy has legitimized God Almighty and permitted to rule the impressive and objectives of the noble objectives of the sublime, cleansing the society of corruption and exclusion of the vices and safer than anxiety and preserved for life, in order to remain intact from defilements diseases and stinky immorality and sins, because increasing the number of women without husbands cause for the spread of immorality and debauchery, poverty and physical and psychological diseases of concern and confusion and sense بالوحشة and depression and so on.
But imagine each and every one of his sister or daughter if her death train marital reason, or to imagine if those widowed or divorced, which was Almighty God forbid it should become as it will be presented to the marriage of those women?!
You will give them a young man in a young age?
And what if God did not initiate plurality What is the fate of those women who waited a half or a quarter of a man?
Vlhma shows that diversity is in favor of women first before you be in favor of men and that it is not unfair to women as people think other, the one who initiated diversity is God Almighty, who says in the hadith Qudsi: ((O My servants, I have forbidden injustice to myself and made him sons taboo not wrong one another)) [Reported by Muslim]
Can be deprived of God then entitles plurality injustice and the oppression of women?
Can not ever!!!
Because God is a woman who created a know earlier, and he knows that diversity does not harm her
{Not know who create a gentle expert} [King: 14]
Say أأنتم know Mother of God [Baqarah: 140]
The Almighty God has permitted diversity for the benefit of women in non-denial of marriage, and in the interest of man not crashes benefits, and in the interest of the nation heavily offspring, it is wise legislation of an expert, do not challenge the only blind God his Kafr or insight hypocrisy or obstinacy.
Multiplicity of other communities
We are not alone who want to pluralism and call for it, but even countries infidel now started demanding it and let the application after it saw what happened to their societies of corruption and deviation result of the large number of women mistresses even impact on some communities of these countries Weak offspring and said مواليدها few threaten with extinction, and as a result has stated who knows nothing about the Muslim faith of them بتمني refer to the teachings of disease and virtues real, including the plurality, but some educated women from the Franks Srhan بتمني polygamy for men one to be every woman values and sponsor of the men left home to him and relieved that plague them and become their daughters housewives houses and mothers of the children of immigrants, and the writer says English (Bertrandersl):
"The system of one to marry a woman and applied strictly based on the assumption that the number of members of both sexes almost equally, and as long as the situation is not as well as the very survival cruelty to those who Tdtrhen circumstances stay Aansat"
Reasons for diversity
There is no doubt that the way is my way pluralism and edit things we know away from emotions and courtesies, including:
1 - that God had used to be that if men always less than women in all statistics minimum almost more vulnerable to destruction in all spheres of life such as wars and car accidents and so on, which always makes a number of women more than men, Flo Palace man to one woman would have remained a large number women from non-marriage, perhaps because of it and gets an immoral thing as it now exists in many other foreign countries.
2 - which also said that a man may marry one and this one can not have children and he wants the boys, or you may marry a woman and then get sick a long illness, what works guy then?! Do you divorce her because they are sick or because they can not have children?! Or keep it protects is sick with or without children?!
He divorced her for one of these reasons, this ill-ten and oppression of women and if he stayed with them on this case, it is also an injustice to him, the solution if the wife remains has enhanced an honor and marries another.
3 - Also, some women do not want sex because desire is limited and some big men his sexual desire, or may be the man does not have a strong sexual inclination to his wife for some reason, what works?
Do you remain deprived of'm and مكبوتا into account for the feeling of his first wife, or go looking for land, or marry whichever is the best and most desirable?!
4 - as well as also the women are always ready for marriage at any time because they no material costs while many men may not have the capacity on the requirements of marriage only after a long time, if so, does break down women without marriage and they are ready?
It was some people do not find there is a foal from him the ability to pony who is married and wants another, can disrupt women for this reason? This is a great injustice to women.
Selfish women
If we talked about pluralism and asked where we call multiculturalism woman Msmlh Poor idle did not find a husband and looking for a half or even a quarter of a pair, but some married women do not want it, but the tongue of their nature to say: Let her alone sitting without a husband even if they are Muslim, Let her alone die disadvantaged Do not take me to my husband, this is selfish, this is not to feel compassion for the Muslims, as a result of the passion and desire to attack without consideration or regard for the interests of legitimate guaranteed by the plurality, is it good to reluctant Some women with their husbands and remain the majority are deprived of affection and men host?
What is the crime that Artkpnha even applied for them this punishment strictly from people who have lost their kindness and compassion, this only selfish in married women and Ijarihn men couples who captured their wives do not rotate only in Falakhen not beholding only Bnizarhm, otherwise what harm married women to combine to her husband's second wife and a third and a fourth, as long as able to spend them and justice among them in everything, is it the love of the husband and the inability to be patient with him is that you be patient for long days in his travels and his absence from home?!
Aho ownership and exclusivity?!
Or is it just envy and selfishness?!
To imagine each wife the same place disadvantaged women that did not find a husband to know the extent of the suffering experienced by those disadvantaged women!!
One of fairness, justice and equality and the arbitration of the mind to think of women in the sister of the children of sex and destiny and reality painful experienced, and I did a sin worthy of which this cruel is deprived of a husband and parent and child, only that she was a victim of her sister married and selfishness ..!!
As well as the risks and negative consequences that might arise from its survival without a husband as breadwinner may not forced by circumstances Tljiha to the need to commit sin and immorality Vtahedr the so dignity and humanity lost and sells some of them cheaply on the altar of poverty and need?!
Justice between wives
Justice has ordered the duties enjoined God Almighty in the verse: {Allah commands justice and charity} [Nahl: 90]
Must be a Muslim to investigate justice in all affairs of religious and secular, and justice between wives as it is known is essential requires the husband to give each of the right of right in line Messenger of Allah peace be upon him who the fairest people in everything, especially among his wives.
What is happening now practices poorly by some couples Almaddan should not be calculated on the plurality, but counted them alone and those who are abused for the multiplicity and made it Babaa scary for many women, because the man if he had amended with his wives to Saadn so and no longer problems, and more women are forced into polygamy because their husbands did not adjust them, فالخطأ not legislation but the error in the application, even though the men if they marry revised life for she was made straight, and the lack of problems and be pleased with everyone and maybe called on women to pluralism.
If someone does not treat his two wives, this issue need to treat the disease eradicated and heals dieback, but the eradication of the disease ICON prevent Acceptable in which a lot of benefits.
Will says sensible to cancel the interaction between people in order to avoid problems carried out by some of those who corrupt their morals and lost qualities offices, if the abuse department of these ignorant people have been achieved in a matter of polygamy, these abuses are not little if we look at the great benefits that نجنيها of this system and to the great evils which result from the left.
Challenge the plurality of apostasy from Islam
We have the whole Scientists Rose of denied something from the book of God or hated him, and those who deny the plurality or see it as unfairly or digestible for women, or dislike this legislation is no doubt in disbelief and Marwgahm of the debt to the verse: {That is because they hated what Allah revealed فأحبط their} Muhammad: 9]
So we warn those manipulators, also fear for those who distort the issue of pluralism and يخوفون people of them, and they talk a lot about their drawbacks without positives.
Hamsa in each ear wife
We are not asking women to not jealous of her husband and satisfy the wife of another shared by That is natural and instinctive can not be the safety of the souls of it, but what we want from the first wife that is not paid by this jealousy instinctive to stand the desire of the husband to marry again or guile and maliciousness in various ways to achieve the failure of this marriage and the pressure on the pair called the other, or act in a way to force the other wife to sense as intrusive, and that it had stolen a pair of his wife and father of his children and his home, which paid to withdraw and seek a divorce or a sense of shame because of their consent to marry a married, It should also identify each one extent permitted by God and warns exceeded these limits معتذرة including فطرها upon qualities of femininity, but not jealousy fungal O sister of the first wife will motivate you to please God first and then satisfy the pair Secondly consent and stay away from what raises anger and sadness to Tstathrey Bmodth and his love and mercy , you بزواجك it did not Temtlkih forever, but take positions contrary to that and precluding the initiated and the claim of love for the pair do not back you, but disagreements marital endless family life is concerned not settle down, and stifle husband and exciting Hfazth and إيغار to his chest, all carved out of love stable in the heart and to confer on the love and compassion cast a grim and transmitting housing to the house of the spider, and you in the mothers of the believers wives of the Prophet peace be upon him and الصحابيات الجليلات biggest role models in, it has a number of the Prophet peace be upon him, as well as the Caliphs and a large number of companions did not know about one of those women anger or objection to the plurality or hate him or escape from the house or a request for a divorce because of it, as is the case when some women this time who tell their knowledge and the weakness of their faith.
The need to consolidate the issue of pluralism and carrots
From the above we can see the importance of diversity and the need for society to him and the need for attention by writing a lot about him and cooperation for all to تأصيله and carrots him please correct what Raj among Muslims of the wrong perception about polygamy and considered at some injustice to women and digestible to the right and betrayal of her, especially the need today it urgently and tomorrow will be the need is greater.
There are almost three sides are able, God willing, the adoption of this topic, containment, and raising awareness and advocacy, namely:
1 - media: in all fields and in writing about the preparation of studies and seminars that deal with this subject, and also refused to boycott all inconsistent with him through what is written in the newspapers or in TV shows, movies and the like.
2 - The General Presidency for Girls' Education: The inclusion of this subject within the curriculum in the advanced stages and make it into one of the Islamic material in order to recognize the students on the importance and benefits and grow up on hatred and fear him.
3 - imams: and so talking about him and about the benefits and the need for some women to in Friday sermons and in everyday conversations from time to time, or in conversations Ramadan when there is a large female presence.
That if it is combined efforts and cooperation of everyone in this topic, it will be, God willing, is commonplace and familiar among the people as it was in previous societies and thereby facilitate the plurality for men and fear the brunt of women, and holed disadvantaged and eliminate spinsters, widows, divorcees and pleased everyone, God willing.
May God help us all He loves and which pleases Him and God's blessings and peace upon our Prophet Muhammad and upon his family and companions.
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